How to Not Kill Your Husband During the Covid-Era

By now you know that Paul and I fight, just like every other couple. We love, respect, and admire each other, but we have days where things are f*cking hard. It’s life! Add on running a couple of businesses, working together 24/7, raising a child, renovating a house, quitting jobs, and a pandemic, and the […]

Do’s and Don’ts of a Happy Marriage

Before I share my advice on a happy marriage, know this: our marriage is not perfect. Paul annoys the shit out of me and vice versa. We fight. We have days where it’s hard. We have days where the knife emoji is real life. But for the most part, we’ve built a partnership that we’re […]

6 Things Paul + I Like to Do for Dates

Paul and I just got back from Napa (in case you missed my weekend full of buzzed IG Stories) and it was veryyyy needed. We work together and are basically together 24/7 which is the problem. We’re constantly in work or parent mode, not necessarily relationship mode. And as anyone who works with a spouse […]

Red Flags to Watch for in a Person

I’m a small circle kind of b*tch, which probably doesn’t come as a surprise. I’ve made certain ride-or-die relationships in my adult years, which I’ve written about, but for the most part, it’s been the same clique for decades. Blame it on my lack of social interaction (by choice), the fact that I’m not the […]

A Letter to the Single Girls on Valentine’s Day

Happy Valentine’s Day! This holiday can feel forced as f*ck and honestly, I’ve never been a huge fan. Is anyone though? Even in a relationship, there is pressure, busy ass restaurants, cheesy cards…you know what I’m talking about. Paul and I usually go the easy route and chill at home but I’m very aware that […]

How to Keep a Relationship Spicy

It’s crazy to think, but Paul and I are actually going on 10 years of being together (and have known each other wayyy longer). We were literally babies when we first started dating and I can’t believe it’s been a f*cking decade! Between all the personal changes that come with your 20s and 30s, to […]